"BY 4 DAYS WORK AT HARVEST BY YOUR DAUGHTER
CATHERINE" -- THE FARMER
While one might be tempted
to think of our frontier women as having lived a
life replete with naught but the tedium and drudgery
associated with the labors of farming, such was not
always necessarily the case. Consider the
unique experience of Nelly Malholen.
The date was 11 December
1743. Nicholas Dupui had just opened his doors to
customers a day earlier, with a host of 14 area men
having thronged into his establishment to partake of
rum and to select assorted items from his vast
collection of merchandise. Truly, a grand
opening event.
But today, the day right
after the Grand Opening, the store would admit entry
to but a single customer who would garner all of
Nicholas Dupui's attention -- young Miss Nelly
Malholen.
Nelly would wind up buying 6
½ yds. of callicoe, 3 yds. of linen, a lace, 1 & ¾
yds. of check linen, 14 yds. of callamancoe, and to
demonstrate her frugality: "the Remains of a
pair of Stockins".
The total bill came to 4
pounds, 10 shillings, and 3 pence, which Nicholas
Dupui then discounted down to 3 pounds and 12
shillings. Not a bad deal... and payment was
tendered the very same day. But not by Miss
Malholen. Instead, the Malhalon account was
settled by Nicholas Depui himself who logged a
matching credit of 3 pounds and 12 shillings into
her account. For Nelly, this was a day of free
shopping on the frontier!
So what was the occasion
that had prompted this private viewing and the
inordinate largesse on the part of Nicholas Dupui?
What's the backstory that we're missing?
We note that one
genealogical researcher posits the fact that Dupui's
wife, Wentjen Heyitje (Roosa) Dupuy, had passed away
a full year earlier on 24 December, 1742. If
true, it might lead one to conclude that with a
requisite period of mourning having been completed,
Nicholas Dupui was likely once again on the prowl.
Whatever the case may have
been, what we learn from this episode is that
gift-giving played a major role in colonial society.
Gifts were offered to Indians, to friends, and to
women. It was these moments of charity and
kindness that then, like now, served to break up the
drudgery of the day.